TL;DR: Connect with people whom you admire. Things can take longer so stay in touch. At the right moment, don’t hesitate to ask. I recently became an Engineering Manager after being an Individual Contributor for almost 8 years. If you are interested to know more about the reasoning behind the change. As like many other jobs in Tech, there is no formal training for an Engineering Manager. Reminds me of my dad’s saying “How do you teach one to swim?

Last week, I got promoted to Engineering Manager (EM) of the Database team at Cloudflare. I joined the team almost 3 years ago. A senior team member and myself were hired to form a then dedicated database team. I have been enjoying it and the team is amazing to work with. Great people. Opportunities came to either advance on the Individual Contributor (IC) or the leadership side. I picked the latter.